Many of us say we are following Jesus, but in reality, we are asking Jesus to follow us: to bless our plans, our paths, and our pursuits. When Jesus said, “Come after Me,” the picture was clear: Get behind Me; I am leading, you are following. Friend, you can't follow Jesus if you're asking Jesus to follow you. Surrender means getting behind Christ, trusting His lead, and following wherever He goes. “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me” (Matthew 16:24).